Just expensive clothes, a luxury car and a sexy look are often not enough. They don't like anything thoughtless and not at all when a man flirts with them. Therefore, try to get your dream woman differently, smarter and more wisely.
We have prepared 5 tips for how to charm a woman: :
1. Be confident
Being confident is very important. There is nothing worse than a money-busting man who wants to hide his shyness behind money. Although women may at first be surprised by male shyness (in a good sense), it has been proven in the long run that women long for self-confident men. Think about it, which woman likes to constantly push a man into something, to persuade him and always take the first step? Mostly none. Rather, women prefer men who can lead them. They can have a conversation, ask questions and are not afraid to express their opinion.
Men who are seen, standing upright, enjoying society around them and giving smiles in all directions make a much better first impression. Those who are crouching in the corner, trying to keep from being noticed, have no chance.
Believe it or not, a woman will sense if you are self-confident, or just a bundle of nerves and complexes, looking for a woman that he can overwhelm with his problems day after day.
But be careful not to overdo it with the self-confident. Try to be yourself, but do not try to be the centre of attention at all costs. Similarly, do not try to show a woman that you are a typical know-it-all kind of man. It maybe is nice that you have travelled around the world three times and met women of all nationalities, but you will not make a long-lasting impression on her. If you will try to impress her with this throughout the evening when you meet, the next day it clears from her head and you won't hear from her again.
Being self-confident does not mean that you impose her a compliment after a compliment. And no woman do like the banal compliment you tell her about her beautiful eyes or hair. So save with flattery, but do not avoid it completely. Try to be original and adapt the compliment to the situation.
2. Take care of your appearance
This is the second most important point. Women admire men who can dress nicely and tastefully. They also like it when a man smells nice. As for the details of your outfit, women most often notice watches and shoes. Men's watches should be an important part of every man. The watch often tells us what a man's taste is. Obviously you will not dazzle a woman with cheap plastic watches of common clothing brands or perhaps copies of expensive brands. Men's watches should reflect how original they are and how much they enjoy originality, whether they are more practical or extravagant, whether they put on precise manual work, or are content with conformity, or whether they follow current trends or it doesn't matter to them at all.
You don't have to buy a watch for tens of thousands or even hundreds of thousands, even much cheaper men's watches can attract attention, express your personality and fulfil their purpose. Today it is no exception that men often wear watches on both right and left hands. But you should be able to justify why you wear two watches. Never, however, start telling a woman how expensive a watch is. The price at first is definitely not important, the story is important.
It is similar with perfume. Men's perfume also creates an overall impression, so make sure you get the job done. First of all, make sure it can develop the fragrance throughout the day. There is nothing more sensual than a pleasant-smelling man. But if you go into the event in the evening, after a day at work or at business meetings, perfume (or eau de toilette) does not always last throughout the day. Therefore, bet on quality. Quality perfumes will definitely last throughout the day, as well as some eau de toilette. Keep your favourite brand and stick to it. But how do you know the best fragrance for you? Once a woman tells you that you smell nice, it's true. At that moment you will know that you are wearing just the fragrance that is right for you. Men's perfumes are the alpha and omega of a male personality and believe that you will not get the right one in a regular drugstore.
In addition to watches and perfumes, of course, the clothes you wear and shoes are also important. Pitched toes, trampled heels or mud boots will certainly not attract any woman, and if so, it will not have a positive impact on you. You may be surprised at how often women decide whether to start talking to a man or ignore him, based on his shoes. They also see if the shoes match the rest of the clothes. If you wear sports shoes for your formal suit, it sure won't be appreciated. On the other hand, if you go to a company where formal wear is not required, you can easily try to impress more extravagant footwear or other items of clothing. However, if you are wearing a shirt, it should always be perfectly ironed, and if you have pants with pucks, they should also be perfect.
Beware of sweaty armpits. Occasionally none of us avoids it, even with regular use of high-quality deodorant, at least try to make the woman not notice, and if she does notice, after all, you can't ruin it with a little joke. Surely the woman would welcome more than an awkward silence or an apology.
3. Show interest
Asking something and not listening to what the other is answering is a fundamental mistake. If you ask a question, you are assumed to be interested. Otherwise, there is no need to ask the question. If you ask two or three times and the woman answers, she expects interaction. If that won't happen, she may think that you are simply asking the question to avoid silence, or asking to give the impression that you are interested in her, but since you remain indifferent to the answers, it will make her think that you are somewhere else in your mind. And if a woman thinks that you just want to impress and show interest so she will spend the night with you, you are on your way to fail.
4. Be gallant
No, it's certainly not an outdated way to show affection towards women. Women adore gallant men. Why? Because there are fewer and fewer of them. Open the door for her, if it's necessary. Hold her coat while she id getting dressed, let her out of the restaurant first. Go down the stairs first, always follow the woman up the stairs. Ask if she is missing anything, if she isn't hungry or thirsty or cold. Again, however, there is a rule - everything in moderation. You don't have to ask every ten minutes. This is the extreme that women like even less than men who are gallant. However, you can't go wrong if you ask any of the previously mentioned questions from time to time.
5. Think of body language
Let's go back to point one and two. Being self-confident and mindful of your appearance is also related to your body language. A person without self-esteem occasionally reflected himself by having his hands hidden in his pockets, scratching his head, squirming or wiping his nose. You do all these movements inadvertently, but women will notice them. Similarly, your appearance, even though it includes a great fit suit and an expensive watch, can be very harmful if you keep playing with the watch (Do you play with it nervously or because you want the woman to notice the watch? Both are wrong.). Even twisting a tie is not a good tactic to charm a woman. Not even the constant stepping.
Please also observe these details. Try to think about how you express yourself. But do not watch too much. Even stiffness can hurt you. Just be yours.